3 men / women you would like to marry?

Everybody has a list of people they really like, admire, idolise, get easily attracted to and what not.

I wish I could marry the person I admire the most or the person I idolise. Well, that is all what we can wish for, unless it's a reality. Everybody has a list of people they really like, admire, idolise, get easily attracted to and what not. If given a chance you would not mind marrying one of them.

Here we have some celebs on their three choices. Who knows, in future we might find them married to one of their choices! Let's check out the top three on their lists...

Sonu Sood

After giving a long thought..... some hesitations... Sonu finally made up his mind and told us the three gorgeous, talented females he would like to marry and why.

Rekha: She is so beautiful even now and I believe she'll never change. She is my childhood favourite.

Rani Mukherjee: She has been a very good co-star in Yuva. She is a great actor and a very simple girl.

Sania Mirza: She made India proud. She is a great sports person. She has placed India on the Tennis map.

Twisha Pal

Let's see what Mumbai's youngest set designer has to say. It seems for her sky's the limit and so are her choices:

Gulzar: If he was 40 years younger I would have married him because he is the most romantic person and so charismatic.

Sabeer Bhatia: He is young, enterprising, intelligent. It is his brain power that makes him attractive and therefore he is a hotmale!

Prince William: For the obvious reasons. He is powerful, wealthy and he has status. If I marry him I will be treated like a Queen!

Jugal Hansraj

He really had to scratch his head... He simply said, "I am not ready yet... don't know what to say. I don't want to name anybody from Bollywood like everybody does neither am I going around with someone to name that person."

How can the chocolate boy get away like that? When the question was framed differently and asked which were the three women he admired the most, Jugal still couldn't decide. He some how convinced himself to give us one name:

Keira Knightly: She was awesome in 'Pride and Prejudice'. She is a very good actor and seems to be very sweet. I can marry her three times over and over. I don't have a second and third choice.

Rakhi Sawant

Of course, they all have to be from Bollywood. And she gave us one genuine reason and that is, "they are all good actors."

Abhishek Bachchan: He has a very good nature. He is smart and he is so much like his father. Amitabhji would have been my first choice, but he is already married.

Sanju baba : He has such a good physique, he is macho and at the same time a very good human being.

Salman Khan: I can take the risk with him. He is an angry young man and a very good person at the same time. One thing I am sure about him and that is... Jab bhi woh pyar karega dil se karega .

Nauheed Cyrusi

Her list was endless, but she was quite sure about the top three.

Prince William: He is incredibility hot and he is just great. I believe he would be the perfect and a complete husband.

Jim Morrison: He is no more but his music is still alive. I could have got married to him just for his music. I wouldn't have mind marrying his corpse... (laughs)

Randeep Hooda: I don't have a boyfriend otherwise I would have taken his name. Nonetheless among the Indian guys... (pauses)... Who cares, let me say it... I prefer marrying Randeep Hooda because he is talented and genuinely a superb person.

Shahwar Ali

You see him walking the ramp, in ads, magazines, hoardings and I am sure there are lot of girls who would love to marry him. But let's see what this supermodel's choices are:

Beyonce Knowles: She is very, very hot. She has a very sexy complexion.

Rani Mukherjee: She looks very simple and it seems like she can be the perfect wife. I believe she can take care of kids and the home perfectly.

Priyanka Gandhi: Only if she was not married and given a chance, I would have married her. She is simple, sexy and modern. She has everything that makes a perfect woman, a perfect wife.

Sabina S Mary

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Mr Reserved

What's also very important for you to know is that a man would never show his weakness.

5 ways to help your man open up

Men are so different. Cool, calm, composed and quiet... so unlike women. But what women don't realize is that they too want to speak, talk their hearts out about a problem, office affairs or may be just routine issues.
Most men desperately need to unburden themselves. However, the trick lies in letting them open up, giving them their space and at the same time making them say what they want to say to you.

And if you really don't know how to do that, Shaaditimes gives you some excellent ideas to help your man come out of his closet:

  Pamper him like a kid...
  Firstly, keep in mind that men take time to open up. If there's something that's bothering him, he won't straight away come to you and tell you everything. Remember that unless he's comfortable, he won't say a word.
So, when you find him a little disturbed, it's best to avoid the 'why', 'where' and 'how' for sometime. Let him unwind and reach his comfort zone. Treat him like a kid, do what he loves, cook what he likes to eat... in short, give him all the things, which would melt his heart. And then, when you see that he won't mind your questions, ask what's bothering him. And you'd be surprised the way he'll let you know each and every little thing that's been on his mind.

  Be an avid listener...
  What's also very important for you to know is that a man would never show his weakness or display his vulnerability to anyone, not even to you. He fears that if he opens up, someone's going to laugh at him, leaving him humiliated and rejected. He has him own fears which bar him from opening up! So, even if the sky were falling down on him, he'd say, 'I'm fine'.

So, when you find him discussing a serious matter, give him enough time and patience to explain even the minutest detail. Be a solid and secure listener. If you respond to his thoughts by immediately offering your point of view with something like "Well, that's wrong. I don't agree" or, "Why did you do that?" he is going to clam right up.

  Be open about yourself, too...
  It is said that a relationship works mutually; it's two-way traffic. This means that if you want your guy to be truthful and open to you, be open about yourself as well; after all a relationship is all about give and take.
And when he starts to open up, listen to what he is saying, then take a step beyond and offer something positive in return. After he tells you something personal, say something like, "Well, that's not so bad. I've done worse." It would make him feel more comfortable and at ease.

  Give him positive feedback
  Many women just look at the negative points of the issue and completely forget that it's not a time to give opinions or teach him but a time to "make friends" with your beloved. Your honest and positive feedback is vital and is the only thing required.
For e.g., if an office colleague has been bothering him, it's important for you to understand his point of view and agree with him.

Remember when a couple is getting to know each other, they share common experiences, and therefore experience closeness and comfort. This will help your partner realize that there is someone who understands and will then open up even more.

  Let go of the past
  Have you ever had a "discussion" with your partner that ended up turning into a litany of past grievances? It happens at some point in nearly every relationship, but the fact remains; men cringe when they feel this coming on. When a man fears that his words will later be distorted, misunderstood, told to others or thrown back at him, it is impossible for him to open up.

So, if you want him speak to you openly, try this... Take responsibility for your part in the situation and see the ways in which you might have contributed to what happened. This does not mean blaming yourself, either. Just look at the situation with a larger perspective. Focus on all the things he did right, not wrong.

Also, the ability to forgive may be just as simple as realizing that what was true a year ago about him (and about yourself as well) may not be true now. Stay focused in the present. True communication requires the ability to remain in the present and to let the past be over and done with.

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Filmi fundas

Parineeta and Paheli, both have the heroines decked in embroidered sarees with loads of colour combinations.

Period films determine bridal fashion trends

It is time to make a sartorial statement with two mega films - Parineeta  and Paheli . Both have the heroines decked in embroidered sarees  with loads of colour combinations along with antique jewellery. Or stylish kurtas  tagged with crochet duppattas  takes us back to the 1960's and 70's.

The classic look is very interesting and trendy. The colours of Paheli  and cuts of Parineeta  are already creating ripples in the fashion circuit. "Fashion is a vicious cycle, after the retro look and loads of styles in silhouettes; it is time for the sharp classic look. Very well defined and refined," said designer Shaina NC.

Be it Rekha's red saree  in Parineeta , or Rani Mukherjee's orange and blue ghaghra , the cuts are based on the 60's style and elegance is at its epitome. "Even in the club sequence, Rekha looked very sensuous in a saree  and carried the whole song very gracefully," said Shaina.

Along with the sari  the blouses have to be considered and a sharp contrast certainly rules the roost. "The blouse patterns of Parineeta  are very interesting and well defined and can look very stylish, when worn with bordered saris ," said Shaina. The lace and crochet borders remind us of the sheer delicacy in that era, along with blouses accessorized with knots and bows.

Coming to ethnic wear, the ghaghras  have certainly made a great come back. "After watching Paheli  the trend of mermaid skirts or straight cut ghaghras  are out. A-line ghaghras  along with ethnic Gujarati drapes and tie up blouses with short sleeves are in," said designer Sheetal Sanghavi. "Lots of brocades will be used, with golden weave on bight and vibrant colours."

The trends of Parineeta  and Paheli are very subtle and not ostentatious as in Kabhie Khushi Kabhie Gham  or Devdas . "The look is very sophisticated and not too much paraphernalia is required, and jewellery has to be in tune with the costumes. Lots of meena  work and stones give the perfect look."

For men, sharp suits with a touch of casualness make big impact. This season one should not be surprised if you spot a man wearing a jacket over a casual t-shirt. Saif Ali Khan's gelled hair along with a cigarette made way for 'Elvis' look. "For men, 'Elvis' colours like black and white are back in big way. Straight pants with crisp white cuffed shirts along with striking cufflinks have come back," said Sanghavi.

On the ethnic note after watching Shahrukh Khan in raw silk kurtas  and crisp dhotis , don't be surprised if the wedding season follows that trend, or for that matter an Achkan  with high heeled boots will easily be sought after.

Fashion has always been influenced by films, and these mega period films are all set to determine future fashion trends.

Swati Shah

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Shampoo techniques for your hair type

Gentle handling of the hair after shampooing is important in maintaining healthy hair.

Dr. Sonal and Apoorva Shah India's First Certified Trichologists. The official hair care experts for the Miss India contests. Have a question? Click here...

How long should I rinse my hair after I shampoo?
Rinsing hair well after shampooing is important. The average time is 60-90 seconds, but two minutes is probably better and thorough rinsing may take longer if hair is very thick or long. Hair should not feel like it is coated. It is best to rinse hair with the water flowing in the direction of your cuticle, not against it-head is held back and water flows from forehead to back.

How should I treat my hair after I shampoo it?
Gentle handling of the hair after shampooing is important in maintaining healthy hair. After washing you need to blot the hair, don't rub the hair dry. Rubbing can cause tangling and even breakage of brittle hair. After your hair dries or when it is damp, comb hair with a wide-tooth comb, holding sections of hair to gently comb through tangles.

What temperature should the water be when I rinse my hair after shampooing?
The temperature should be determined by what you want to achieve. A cool water rinse helps close the cuticle, which makes the hair feel smoother and look shinier. If hair tends to get oily quickly, cool or tepid water is recommended. Luke warm water stimulates oil production, so if your hair is dry, you may want to use Luke warm water instead of cool water. Remember never to apply anything hot to the hair, always wash hair with luke-warm water or cold water.

If my hair has a squeaky feeling when I shampoo my hair, does this mean it is clean?
A squeaky clean feel usually indicates that oils have been removed from the hair. However, it also may indicate a raised hair cuticle. Rely on a thorough rinsing rather than that squeaky clean feeling.

How should I massage shampoo on my scalp in a correct manner?
To cleanse and stimulate your scalp, use your finger tips, never fingernails, to work shampoo onto the scalp.

I get oily, greasy-looking hair at the end of the day. What shampoo should I use?
Daily, use an oily-hair formula shampoo, which removes excess hair oil as they maintain hair's essential moisture. As far as conditioning, avoid using a daily rinse-out conditioner, which can tend to weigh down oily hair.

I have dry hair. What shampoo should I use?
For dry hair, use a moisturizing shampoo, which cleans and conditions. Moisturizing shampoos contain humectants and/or rinse-out conditioners that help prevent moisture loss by closing the hair cuticle. If hair is very dry, use a weekly oil and tonic treatment. Also make sure that you condition your hair after shampooing and apply a hair serum to add a shine to your hair.

My hair is really damaged as a result of perming. What type of shampoo will bring it back to life?
Permed and colour-treated hair needs special attention. You need to select a shampoo formulated for permed and colour- treated hair. The bottle might also say 'dry and damaged hair'. You need to condition your hair regularly by oiling it at least thrice a week with Jaborandi oil and a hair tonic.

Dr. Sonal and Apoorva Shah will answer your queries. Ask now!

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Tips for making perfect fried rice

Since most families enjoy fried rice, can you advice us on what is the perfect way to toss up simple fried rice.

Nita Shroff asks,
Since most families enjoy fried rice, can you advice us on what is the perfect way to toss up simple fried rice.

Making the perfect fried rice is not a tough job at all. There are a few points to be considered and observed while making fried rice.

Rice

1. Choose good quality rice, preferably basmati  variety, avoid using tukda  [broken] variety of rice.
2. Soak the cleaned and washed rice in cold water for at least 10 mins before proceeding to boil it.
3. Boil sufficient water in a pan, little more than double the quantity of rice you are using.
4. Add 1 tbsp. of oil in the water in which you would be boiling the rice.
5. Add the rice once the water is boiling, stir occasionally and drain when just cooked. Do not overcook.
6. Refresh the cooked rice, with chilled / cold water, in order to stop further cooking.

Stir frying the rice.

1. Use a suitably large pan in which you would be stir frying the fried rice.
2. Spread the oil to all sides of the pan in which you would be cooking, this would avoid sticking of the rice on the sides of the pan.
3. Use a flat spoon to stir rice in the pan.
4. Ideally prepare it just before serving, to get the best taste. Keep all the vegetables etc ready ahead of time.

Recipe for simple fried rice

Ingredients

Basmati  rice - 2 cups [boiled]
Shredded carrots - 1 no
Shredded green capsicum - 1 no
Shredded cabbage - 1 cup
Sliced onion - 1 small
Salt and pepper powder to taste
Soya sauce - 2 tsp.
Oil - 2 tbsp.
Chopped garlic-2 cloves

Method

Clean the rice, wash well, soak for around 10 mins. Boil until cooked but not over cooked in boiling water. Refresh with cold water.

Heat oil in a pan, sauté the garlic and onion for 2 mins, add the carrots and stir-fry for a minute.

Add the cabbage & capsicum, salt, pepper and soya sauce. Add the rice and mix well. Add salt as per taste. Cook for another 2 mins on medium high flame, remove and serve hot with chilli sauce or chilli vinegar.

Variations

1. Add shredded double fried egg for egg-fried rice.
2. Boiled shredded chicken, sausages, luncheon meat, shrimps etc
3. Mushrooms, baby corn, broccoli, green peas and even soya bean granules can be added to vegetarian fried rice recipes.

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Kaviraj Khialani

Anuuj Saawhney

"The controversy arose due to the misinterpretation of something I had said."

"Bollywood has been very giving..."

How would you describe your journey from Nayee Padosan  to Chingaari ?
The journey has been very heartening. Bollywood has been very giving in terms of the kind of work offered and encouragement received. A newcomer like me often finds it difficult to get a foothold in this industry, but Bollywood, the people around me... all have pleasantly surprised me! I pray this upward spiral continues and I keep the trust and faith bestowed upon me by one and all.

How different, or rather simply, how was it working for a lady director?
Kalpanaji  is a creative genius. Her detailing of the character graph and situation, coupled with the flexibility offered to me to work within the given constraints served as an ideal workspace to explore and grow for a newcomer like me. I don't understand how the gender would make any difference whatsoever. I am not only lucky, but also privileged to work with a director of the stature of Kalpana Lajmi at the threshold of my career.

What was the whole controversy, involving you and Sushmita Sen, all about?
The controversy arose due to the misinterpretation of something I had said in order to create a saleable 'scoop' story. I was taken aback and shocked when the comments I had given were twisted to such an extent, with the extra masala  added, just to catch some attention. Such tactics are very selfish and the media should understand the sentiments of the people involved. I was very hurt when I first heard about the story. It hurt everybody involved. But it's been done and over with. Sushmita has been a great co-star and friend to work with. God bless her always.

What genre would Chingaari  as a film fit into - Commercial, masala  pot-boiler or an offbeat film?
A commercial film is a film which is commercially viable with a scope to rake in the moolah at the box office. Chingaari  is a brilliant film with the potential to become a huge success due to its awe inspiring plot, performances and direction. Everyone involved with this project has given more than their 100% and I strongly believe that sincere efforts definitely pay off.

Where do you see yourself 10 years down the line?
Right at the top! Period.

Ok, till now we have heard from Anuuj, the actor, now let's grill Anuuj, the person.

5 things that you look for in a girl
The wit, smile, eyes, smell and walk.

4 romantic things you have done

• Walked 8 kms in the middle of the night to catch a glimpse of her, just to find out she's out of town.
• Bought a ring I couldn't afford to lose it before gifting it to her.
• Sang 'Making love out of nothing at all' in front of the entire college, just to forget the words after singing the very first line.
• Organised a school trip to be with her for a week, just to realise she's missed the train!

3 dreams you want accomplished
I hope to become a great husband, father and son someday.

2 most expensive gifts you have ever bought

• A ring for her I lost before meeting her
• A sports car I crashed the very next day!

1 person you would like to be in your next birth
Myself, but a wee bit taller (laughs).

Sagar Patel

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20 marriage myths

Here are some myths that individuals, males and females both, should guard against before getting married.

• Loneliness will end with marriage.
  
  
• Spouses should be able to read one another's minds.
  
  
• Men like and need sex more than women.
  
  
• If a couple truly loves one another, they won't have problems.
  
  
• Marriage makes a person a complete human being.
  
  
• Married couples should do everything together.
  
  
• Having money will solve all problems.
  
  
• Marriage is bad for women as it damages their self-esteem and limits their opportunities.
  
  
• Romance is never ending in a marriage.
  
  
• Marriage makes people happy.
  
  
• Children can hold a family together.
  
  
• A person's family background has no effect on their marriage.
  
  
• Divorce is usually the best answer for kids when a marriage sours.
  
  
• Arguing destroys a marriage.
  
  
• He / she will change after marriage.
  
  
• Sex lessens as a couple grows older.
  
  
• Marriage is essentially a private matter, an affair of the heart between two adults, in which an outsider, not even the children of the marriage should be allowed to interfere.
  
  
• Your relationship will improve after marriage.
  
  
• Love and romance are the most important ingredients in a marriage.
  
  
• Things will now be easier as I have someone to share the load.
  
  
• Couples who live together before marriage are able to test how well suited they are for each other, have more satisfying and longer-lasting marriages than couples that do not.

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In vogue - Styles for 2006

This time around the designers have introduced a different concept for brides when it comes to the ultimate dressing.

In Bridal Trends 2006, everything new and innovative for the Indian bride is experimented. This time around the designers have introduced the different concept for brides when it comes to the ultimate dressing. From ghaghra cholis  to sarees  and to skirts, styles are a plenty. The hand-designed clothes with hand woven motifs gives the bride a total Indian look while keeping in mind also changing modern trends.

Colours were an added aspect of bridal trends. Colours for the Indian bride have changed radically with black and white along with various other hues being introduced this 2006.

Silhouette - "This season one would be observing absolutely tight silhouette in cholis  neatly cut and straight fitted skirts that just looks right for your body," says fashion designer Shaina NC of Golden Thimble. Apart from that sarees with layers and even A-line skirts are in.


Style - Apart from ghaghra choli  two different sarees  draped in different style is very much in. "We get lot of customers asking for sarees  with different and stylish stoles. Another alternative to saree  is A-line skirt with dupatta  draped differently and halter cholis ," said Jatin Gala, fashion consultant with Bright Emporium, Bandra. Other styles include of skirts with frills and slits, but the best is traditional work in western cuts.

Fabrics - "Fabrics with lot of flow are very much in especially chiffon and georgettes along with lots of brocades. The surprise package is net fabric teamed with georgettes and silks," said Shaina. Even velvets are in the offing.

Hues - Colour palette is the most radical and one can even see black being used. The aqua hues are big rage mainly aqua blue and green. "Even bold contrasts are in, like of fuschia pinks and aqua blue or orange and green. On softer side lime and light peaches are also spotted in bridal wear," said Gala.

Embellishments - Lot of antique work, Parsi gara  work, pitta  work and stones are big rage. But the positioning of motifs and embroidery is very important and even kundan  work is getting noticed in traditional outfits.

Bridal Saree Designed by : Shaina N.C
Pics courtesy : Ashishsompura.com

Swati Shah

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Personalised diets for losing weight

I am 20 years old and my height is 5'6. I weigh 90 kg because of which I am not able to get any good proposals.

Jyoti Mehta She is a practising dietitian with Weigh To Live since the last 10 years. Her diets are personalised and are planned according to the individual's needs, lifestyle, and personal diet history. Have a question? Click here...

Proper diet

Komal asks,
I weigh 196 lbs and my height is 5'1. I am suffering from polycystic ovaries. Can you help me with a diet plan so that I can bring down my weight?
Dear Komal,
For breakfast eat a cup of sprouts, a fruit and a cup of milk. For lunch eat a bowl of salad, a cup of curd, 2 chapattis , a cup of vegetables cooked in very little oil, a cup of dal  or pulses or a small piece of chicken or fish which is also cooked in very little oil. Eat the same for dinner. Eat the fish or chicken only once during the day. Between meals eat at least 4 fruits - bananas / custard apple to be had only twice a week and a handful of roasted chana . It is very important to eat at regular intervals, every 3 hours is preferable. Drink a minimum of 8 glasses of water daily.

Irregular eating time

Sunita asks,
I work in a call center; I have lots of stomach problems. I work from 7:30 pm to 5:00 am, untimely eating habits has hampered my digestive system and I feel my stomach is bulging out whenever I eat. Please help me with some suggestions over losing weight and good diet.
Dear Sunita,
Irregular eating time is bound to give you stomach problems. The best thing you can do is to have a good early dinner before you go to work, and snack on fruits during your break. Come home and have a light breakfast and then once you are rested you can have your lunch. Each meal must contain salad, curds and lots of vegetables. Between meal times, snack on lots of fruits. Drink plenty of water. Include some exercise in your daily routine since you have a sedentary job.

Rapid weight gain

Saniya asks,
I am 20 years old and my height is 5'6. I weigh 90 kg because of which I am not able to get any good proposals. I do go for one-hour walks daily but I'm not able to reduce my weight at quite a good speed. I eat vegetable sandwiches daily. Can you please give me a diet chart? Because of my weight I have got polycystic ovaries for which I am taking medication. I am very depressed because I am over weight. My problem area is my tummy and my shoulders look huge.
Dear Saniya,
Losing weight rapidly feels good at that time but in the long run it is better to lose weight slowly - 1/2 kg per week is good. The chances of rapid weight gain are more with rapid weight loss. For breakfast, eat either 2 khakhras , or 2 slices of whole wheat bread, or a cup of poha  or upma . Mid morning have a fruit, 2 almonds, 2 walnuts and 2 dates.
For lunch, eat 2 chapattis  with 1 cup of vegetables cooked in 1/2 tsp. oil, 1 cup of sprouts, a cup of dal  or pulses, a bowl of salad, and a cup of curds.
Evening snack: 2 fruits and a fistful of roasted chana  or soya nuts.
Eat an early dinner consisting of a bowl of salad, a cup of leafy veg., a cup of any other veges., a cup of curds and 1 chapatti .
You can substitute rice or a slice of whole wheat bread for 1 chapatti . Do not skip any meals and eat at regular intervals. Do some exercise for your stomach.

Does water help lose weight?

Meeta asks,
I have heard that if we avoid drinking water directly after a meal and drink it after 30 minutes it helps in reducing weight. Is it right?
Dear Meeta,
There is no scientific proof that drinking water after 30 minutes or immediately after a meal makes any difference in losing weight, but drinking water a little later helps in digestion. The temperature of the water also does not make any difference in weight loss.

Gain weight

Siya asks,
I am 5'2 and a mother of a 6 year old girl and weigh 44 kg. How do I gain weight the healthy way? I am a North Indian.
Dear Siya,
You must eat a lot of fruits, salads, milk products and dry fruits along with your regular diet. Fruits and vegetables have plenty of anti oxidants, which help in proper digestion of food, which will help you to gain weight.

Jyoti Mehta will answer your queries. Ask now!

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Permanent citizenship after marriage

She is from Egypt and I am an Indian. She wants to marry in India. After marriage, will she get permanent citizenship?

Siddhartha Shah A practicing advocate of Mumbai High Court. He specialises in Civil, Criminal, International and Matrimonial Laws. He opines on Indian Laws and the Legal System. Have a question? Click here...

Power of attorney

G. S. Prasad asks,
Please tell me if an agreement between husband and wife and a affidavit given by wife / husband to spouse in respect of division of assets / claims on property, agreement on divorce with mutual consent etc. is legally valid or can be uphold on an argument, should a need arise?
Dear Mr Prasad,
Any of the spouse can give a power of Attorney to the other which could be for a specific purpose for complying any legal formalities, enabling the power of attorney holder to act in the absence of the other. Also there can be an arrangement made as and by way of agreement between husband and wife with regards certain distribution of immoveable and moveable assets or any type of arrangement agreed amongst them. Now as regards the divorce by mutual consent, consent terms can be legally entered as and by way of agreement between husband and wife but the said consent terms are required to be annexed in the consent petition which is proposed to be filed at the family forum and also along with the supporting affidavits of both the spouses confirming the same arrangement.

Judicial separation

Sam asks,
I am a Indian citizen, Hindu by religion and currently residing in US on a work permit. I got married to a girl in India. She is also an Indian citizen. I was in India 3 days after the wedding and the marriage was never consummated. I was socially forced into the wedding and want to discontinue the wedding. Are there any grounds on which I can seek divorce as soon as possible?
Dear Sam,
This is with regards your query, as what I understand from your query is that you got married according to Hindu rites under Hindu Marriage act. Now you have not mentioned the fact that since how long you have got married and also the fact that since when you are staying separately?
You may file for judicial separation if your marriage has occurred within one year's time and then file for divorce after completion of one year after the decree of Judicial Separation. Section 13 (1)(A) reads as "Either party to a marriage, may petition for the dissolution of marriage on the ground that there has been no resumption of cohabitation as between the parties to marriage for a period of one year or upwards after the passing of the decree of judicial separation."

Mutual consent divorce

Suman Saha asks,
Me and my wife are both not willing to stay with each other. She is very cruel personality and hurls abuses on me and my family members, in front of me. She has also falsely implicated me that I fight with her and has hurt her several times. Will it be suitable ground for me to get divorce. What is the law where couples can get divorce on mutual consent?
Dear Suman,
You could definitely file your papers before the family forum at the place of the jurisdiction where you reside for obtaining divorce if you so desire. You may commence your paper work as regards preparation of papers needed to be filed before the family forum. You have not mentioned the fact that how long you have been married and under which laws your marriage has been registered. Now as regards your query pertaining to Mutual Consent Divorce, which can be only possible when your wife is ready and willing to file the petition by mutual understanding and her consent by deciding upon certain terms and conditions as agreed by and between yourselves.
Divorce by Mutual Consent is one of the Valid Legal ways in which both the parties seeking divorce can file their papers and present them in the Matrimonial Forum. This is done with mutual understanding among themselves and their terms and conditions also can be laid down after arriving at final decisions. The parties seeking divorce Petition or make an application before the Matrimonial Forum for obtaining divorce.
The formalities and the procedures required under the Special Marriage Act, 1954 for obtaining divorce by mutual consent is as follows,

1. Under Section 28 of the Special Marriage Act 1954, a Petition for divorce may be presented to the District Court or Family Forum by both the parties together on the ground that they have been living separately for a period of one year or more and that they have not been able to live together. And that they have mutually agreed that the marriage should be dissolved.
2. On the presentation of the Petition made by both the parties the date of hearing is fixed after the compulsory period of six months. After which the Court shall, on being satisfied hearing the parties and making such inquiry as it thinks fit, that the marriage has been solemnized under the appropriate laws & Act and that the averments or the contents as stated in the Petition are true, then would pass a decree or an order declaring the marriage to be dissolved with effect from the date of the decree / Order.

Permanent citizenship

Asjad asks,
We both are Muslim and adult. She is from Egypt and I am a Indian. She wants to come to India using visit visa. Can we marry by Muslim law? After marriage how we will get her a visa that she be here with me life long?
Dear Asjad,
According to the statutory personal law of Muslims, who are governed under the Shariat  Act, she can definitely come to India and can get married under the provision of Muslim law.
After legally getting married here under the provisions of Muslim laws, you may get your marriage registered as in accordance & in governance of Muslim laws as applicable in India. Then you may apply for the appropriate legalization of her valid status and for her appropriate Indian citizenship from the Indian Embassy / Consulate here in India.

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