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February 28, 2008

Sanjay Dutt Weds Manyata

Sanjay Dutt Weds Manyata Munnabhai finally found a Missus as Sanjay Dutt (48) married his girlfriend Manyata (32) on 7 Feb, 2008.

It's finally happened! The hugely popular Munnabhai has met his match. Sanjay Dutt married his girlfriend of several years Manyata. The couple got married in a quiet ceremony at the Taj Exotica in Goa, on February 7. This was followed by a wedding ceremony according to Hindu rituals on February 9 at Manyata's residence in Versova, in suburban Mumbai.

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Dutt was on location in Goa for Suniel Shetty's home production EMI. Sanjay's close friends Bunty Walia, Ajay and Prashant made it for the wedding. However, his sisters were unable to reach the venue in time.

"I am very happy and thank you very much. I love my fans, I love you all and I thank the press for being so supportive and positive", said the groom. Manyata looked ever bit the shy bride, as she stayed by Dutt's side.

"Thank you very much and God bless you all," she said. "I am very exhausted now. I was up the whole night for mehendi and other ceremonies. I am just too happy and don't have any words to express my feelings."

Unfortunately, due to Sanjay's shooting schedule there will be no honeymoon immediately following the wedding.

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Lessons From The KS Part 7 - Men - That Women Love (Part I)

Lessons From The KS Part 7 - Men - That Women Love (Part I) You've tried hard to catch her eye, and get her interested in you. But nothing seems to work.

Men - That Women Love I You've tried hard to catch her eye, and get her interested in you. Or perhaps to rekindle her seemingly dead desire. But nothing seems to work. Well - read on and see where you fit in, in this roll call of sorts, of all the kind of men that women love...

So - according to the Kama Sutra, what kind of men are successful with women?

Men who know the Kama Sutra: No, don't take this for its literal or popular understanding as men who have greater sexual prowess. It's really all about knowing what women want, understanding their vulnerabilities, and assuring them that you're in the know, so you can keep them satisfied without coming on too strong.

Men who are good storytellers: Stories imply emotion, and women are huge suckers for heart-warming narrations. So stock up on drama in real life stories. The more the romance, the more intense the heart-break, and greater the number of children who get rescued - so much the better!

Men who have been close to women since childhood, or grown up with them: Hmmm, you'd think that familiarity would breed contempt. But if a woman has grown up in close contact with a man, past memories can work as a strong aphrodisiac. The natural closeness, perhaps remembrance of a first stolen kiss, shared misgivings of physical intimacy - these often spur the desire to let their hair down once again. As they say, it's yesterday once more...

A man who is in the prime of his youth, like the sexy next-door college-student: Sometimes, in their effort to rake in the moolah, men plain forget that other things are important to women too. Such as, a hot body - okay, at least a well-maintained, fit image. But sadly, some women's husbands just let themselves go paying no consideration to their wives needs. Take a reality check guys, pot-bellies aren't an appetizing site! So hit the gym.

A man who can gain her trust: The Kama Sutra makes clear mention of men who engage women, say in a game or conversation in order to gain their trust. Fact is - women love attention and they love to be drawn into their comfort zone. If you can successfully do that for a woman, she's bound to feel free enough to get close to you.

If you don't fit in any of the above categories of men, don't despair. The list will be continued next week.

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Advertorial: Sparkling Rock's Diamond Jewellery

Advertorial: Sparkling Rock's Diamond Jewellery Sabin Choksi of Sparkling Rock talks on jewellery trends and the growing popularity of Indian designs in the West.

Sabin Choksi of Sparkling Rock talks on jewellery trends and the growing popularity of Indian designs in the West.

On an international market for Indian jewellery :
US market has been very good for Indian designs, as there is huge demand from the Indian population that consist of over 2 million South Asians and millions of others. A general misconception is that jewellery is cheaper in India. But the fact is that, some of the best deals are found in US, the largest market for diamond sales, globally, out of which finished jewellery sales amount to over $26 billion.

Sparkling Rock On how popular Indian jewellery is in US:
Indian jewellery has huge potential, it involves a new styling appeal with centuries-old cultural elements. Traditional Indian jewelry is only worn on special occasions. Non-Indians normally do not wear mangalsutras or religious pendants. A mix of cultures, US welcomes traditional Indian styles, as people are interested in the history and culture of Indian artifacts. Traditional jewellery, for daily use at affordable prices would appeal to people to invest. Sparkling Rock's collection merges this gap blending traditional jewellery with modern styles at an affordable cost.

On evolving trends:
Changes always take place. Cluster rings were once big, then came a growth in invisible settings, followed by a huge demand for three-stone jewelry, colored stones were paired with diamonds, and most recently we have the right-hand ring and chandelier earrings. Old trends usually come back, or are recreated with modern styles. People demand better quality diamonds; they will buy something smaller but will not compromise on color and clarity.

Sparkling Rock On bridal jewellery:
In bridal jewellery, we're dealing with a new generation who has been brought up in the modern environment. There is a clear split between engagement rings coming from the bigger brands like Tiffany or Cartier, and traditional wedding wear for rest of the family coming from local jewellers. The next generation move towards more fusion, with modern styling combined with traditional touches.

Sparkling Rock On himself:
We have been in the diamond business for over 75 years, and I am the third generation. I have grown up playing with diamonds! I have brought in the use of modern technology - the Internet. We have built a secure buying experience and guarantee delivery of products at your doorstep. Our diamonds are GIA certified with free shipping and a 30-day return policy. Customers benefit from huge cost savings, great service, and ease of purchasing jewellery online. Being wholesale manufacturers and traders of diamonds and jewellery, we provide jewellery at wholesale prices to consumers through a direct shipping model.

On the future:
There is a rapid succession of new brands with innovative ideas. Jewellery is as price sensitive as it is a design choice. We have created a direct channel between the manufacturer and the consumer for two very simple reasons: To know what people want, and to offer products at wholesale price. Sparkling Rock cuts retail markups, and customers benefit. We sell everything from certified diamonds, to traditional diamond mangalsutras, to religious pendants. We believe this is the future.

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February 28, 2008 in Fashion | Permalink

How To Make Every Getaway A Romantic One

How To Make Every Getaway A Romantic One Tips that will ensure that you can turn every vacation into a memorable romantic getaway.

Life in the fast lane, although exciting, can take a toll on the most solid relationships. All of us could do with the occasional break from our daily grinds, couldn't we?

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How To Make Every Getaway A Romantic One

However, planning the perfect romantic getaway is often easier said than done. And if you do manage to find a truly romantic destination, chances are that your budget won't allow you the luxury of indulging your fantasies.

So, Shaaditimes brings to you these excellent tips that will ensure that you can turn every vacation into a memorable romantic getaway.

Regardless of where you go (how happening or not the location is), which hotel you stay (5 star or budget), and how much (or little) you've spent on your trip, with these interesting suggestions you can convert every getaway into a romantic one!

Ruchi Agarwal

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February 28, 2008 in Celebration | Permalink

Married In India - Divorce In US?

Married In India - Divorce In US? Marriage and divorce are two separate entities. It is vital to understand the laws while tackling each situation.

Sudhir Shah
A Member of American Immigration Lawyers Association of USA and a practicing Lawyer of Mumbai. He is an expert on USA Immigration Laws. He provides guidance on how to prepare, apply and obtain a visa to travel to the USA upon marrying someone residing there.
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Divorce And Much More

Santhi asks,
I heard about a law that if you are married in India, you are not allowed to get divorced in another country. Is it true? I am a US citizen now. I want to come back to India and he is holding my son as leverage. I don't know what to do? And also I have a bond during wedding, which my parents gave. He is not returning that. If I go back to India how should I pay tax on the alimony?
Dear Santhi,
There is no such law that if a person is married in India he / she is not allowed divorce in another country. Indian laws concerning marriages and divorces and the Civil Procedure Code, which is applicable to Indian courts provide that a person can seek divorce in an Indian court in whose jurisdiction marriage is performed or both the parties after marriage have lived together or where the respondent at the time of filing of the petition is residing.

As against this a USA courts assumes jurisdiction and grants divorce if the petitioner has been residing in his jurisdiction for a minimum prescribed period, which varies from state to state. USA courts assumes jurisdiction even if the marriage is not performed in USA or both the parties have not resided in USA or the respondent has not even stepped her / his foot on USA soil.

Some courts in India have pronounced that divorces granted in the US courts are not binding upon Indians. But this is a controversial issue and if a person residing in USA obtains a divorce in USA courts and remarries in USA there is nothing, which his / her spouse residing in India could do about it.

As regards your other queries you have not stated complete facts, I am therefore unable to provide you any answers to them.

Delay In Visa

Armando Sediles asks,
I am a US citizen, and got married in Syria, September 06. I came back to the USA, and filed I-130 on October 16, 2007, for my wife. Still I haven't received 20 days notice. Would they send it according to the date it was sent, and would this petition be a priority?
Dear Armando Sediles,
At times Service Centres in USA are over worked and hence the delay in sending the notice. You should send them a reminder. It would also be advisable that you file a K-3 visa petition, which would be processed quickly, and your wife will be in a position to join you quickly. Once in USA on K-3 visa she will be permitted to stay in USA and can even work or study there. When the petition filed by you for her immigrant visa is approved, she can adjust her status.

Work Visa

Komal Khera asks,
My husband and I both are HR professionals with 2 and 4 years experience respectively. We are looking for a contract (6 months - 1 year) job in USA. Kindly let us know how we can apply for the jobs there, or get sponsorship from any company. What visa would be best for us? Shall we apply for H-1B?
Dear Komal Khera,
There are several websites, which assist professionals in procuring jobs in USA. You and your husband would need H-1B visa on which you both would be in a position to stay in USA for an aggregate period of 6 years and if you desire also obtain green cards. If either of you is successful in procuring a job in USA and receive an H-1B visa, the other would be in a position to travel there on dependant H-4 visa and once in USA he / she can find a job and convert his / her H-4 visa to H-1B visa.

Long Distance Marriage

Joseph Cole asks,
I have met a girl and I want to marry her. We both have been speaking for months now. Problem is however, I live in the US and she lives in India. What is the best and fastest way to get her here (US) as my bride? We have discussed a few options like her getting a tourist visa. What do you suggest on this topic?
Dear Joseph Cole,
You should travel to India, then marry the girl in India and return to USA and sponsor her for an Immigrant visa as your spouse. She will fall under immediate relative category and would be in a position to travel to USA without any quota restrictions. The petition, which you would file for her immigrant visa, may take year or more to process and approve. You can after filing the immigrant visa petition for her, file K-3 visa petition and she would be in a position to travel to USA within 6-8 months.

Otherwise after meeting the girl in person in India, you may return to USA and then file K-1 fiancée visa petition, which would be processed within 6-8 months. The girl then can travel to USA and marry you within 90 days and then you can sponsor her for a green card whilst she is staying with you.

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February 21, 2008

Time Out with Daboo and Jyoti Malik

Daboo Malik Shaaditimes delves into the lives of Daboo and Jyoti Malik.

Daboo Malik Most of us are familiar with the lemming effect where one thing leads to another... the churning, yearning and passion of love turns into acceptance and responsibility of marriage. Where the giggles and secret hugs gives way to the squirming and gnawing doubts. Before you know it there is no going back and you are on automatic just chugging along.

This is especially true, strangely enough, in many instances where couples have been together for a prolonged period. The seemingly, X factor that brought them together in the first place makes way for the Y factor... The Y then substituted for Why me?

Shaaditimes delves into the lives of a couple together for 15+ years for the elusive spirit that causes couples to stay as opposed to stray in the game of love. And love like cricket where team advantage is not limited to best effort, feelings and thoughts is also not always equitable and just.

Let us take a time out with celebrity couple Daboo and Jyoti Malik as they give us their secret simple recipe of a successful marriage.

Seventeen years young, the Daboo and Jyoti Malik marriage has produced two wonderful sons and a healthy lust for each other and life. The couple stands apart due to the commitment they have to each other, in addition to their commitment and responsibilities to family, children and career.

We make Alone Time for Each Other...

According to both, this is the indefinable tangible serving to strengthen their relationship with each other even today.

"No matter what time Daboo returns in the night, after work, we will go out even if it just for a drive...Just him and me to catch-up on the day. We still hold hands and if he doesn't tell me something nice at least once a day there is something wrong," she laughs.

Music Director Daboo (brother of award winning Bollywood artiste Anu Malik) got his first break with "Maine Dil Tujko Diya" (2002) and is one of the top music composers in Bollywood today. However, amidst a shower of accolades, the couple admits their relationship has waffled in the past under the strain of media scrutiny, and individual career and life goals.

After 17 years what is the one ingredient that has kept the fire alive?

Daboo replies mischievously yet with a certain degree of seriousness, "It's lust." He says in his inimitable deadpan manner. Pauses before laughing, "No seriously, I am physically attracted to my wife tremendously. Although I must admit, I am basically a big flirt," he clarifies and continues, "Over the years I have wooed women all the time, yet no one can compare to my wife. I pray the day never comes where I lose my physical attraction for my wife."

The elusive X factor to the success of their marriage?

"Jyoti and I complement each other. I am creative and she is practical," says Daboo. "I am aggressive in nature and have a strong belief in instilling a solid education in children," agrees Jyoti. "Daboo believes in pampering the children and tries to protect them from all emotional and physical upheavals," she says.

"We both prioritise our time today around the children in addition to our careers. Both Daboo and I encourage our children with their creative pursuits (their younger son Armaan is short listed in the top ten in Zee's Young Talent Contest)."

The quality Daboo admires the most in Jyoti today?

"I think it's been her selfless sacrifice to me and the children. Her sincerity to stay focused and her never say die attitude is something I respect about her immensely," he says and then adds, "She does get brash and angry at times."

Jyoti self-consciously says, "Yes I have devoted my life to Daboo and the boys. Daboo has made it easy for me. He appreciates everything about me. He validates me as a person, woman, wife and mother. If he didn't do this..." she stops and continues. "If we didn't make time for each other one-on-one despite our busy daily routines I don't think it would have been possible to have the relationship we share today."

Daboo remembers, "I remember seeing Jyoti during a rehearsal of a play in College. She was with friends and I knew at that moment I would marry her. I just knew," he says. Jyoti laughs and adds, "He just thought about me... I was the one after seeing him that decided I had to find out who he was and make the first move." After which Jyoti just moved in - literally into Daboo's home, heart and life!

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Top 10 Ways To Impress Her Father

Top 10 Ways To Impress Her Father Want to impress your girlfriend's father? Shaaditimes gives you tips on impressing her hard-hearted papa.

Top 10 Ways To Impress Her Father You could be Prince William himself and yet the fact remains - you'd never be good enough for his little girl. Fathers can rarely accept that their babies have grown up and a good-for-nothing- lazy-son-of-a-so-and-so (that's you by the way!) is going to get his paws on her - literally!

Another fact of life - if her father doesn't like you things are going to get pretty sticky at family reunions. Remember what happened to Ben Stiller in Meet The Parents?

This is why it's necessary to be on the good side of the 'most important' man in your better half's life. And we tell you how.

Slow and subtle does it: He's heard about you and you've heard about him for a long time. Now that you're finally meeting, don't imagine you can have him eating out of your hand - at least not so fast. Take it slow and subtle and watch how it goes instead of trying to chat him up. Slow warming up will mean more time to score with her dad.

No PDAs please: Please, please don't hug or kiss or anything with him or other members of his family - especially not his daughter (your fiancée) - for the first few meetings at least. Rest assured, he needs to know that you're not the slick oily types and the last thing he needs is to be reminded that you and his daughter are going to be 'doing IT'.

Buy a gift with thought: Well, you have to take something for him! If he's the finicky type, your girlfriend's there to help you out with this. But personal gifts and toiletries are not the thing to give. A book if he reads or videos if he likes, movies or maybe an artifact will do. Do your research carefully and then gift him what you know he cannot help but like.

Be positive and warm: He can give you cold vibes, spy on you and even stab you in the back - he can do whatever he feels like. But much as you want to, you cannot do the same. If he's sarcastic and not very warm, make sure you keep responding positively no matter what. She's judging you, remember?

Draw him out: Trying to talk about his passions like horse-racing or playing chess may not be right, at first. He'll be on guard and will think you are too slick and know how to charm people. May be that's what you've done with his simple daughter! So, instead you can talk about the news, current happenings or maybe even a cricket match that you saw recently, if he likes the game too. He will be drawn out gradually and you can move on to other topics then.

Play dependable: As you meet more often, make sure he thinks you're dependable and trustworthy by being available when the family wants you around. By being there for his daughter (as if you wouldn't!) when she's in trouble and otherwise and lending a helping hand to her family.

First look counts: You may hate pretences of any sort so if you love hanging out in chappals and ganjis and even lungis for all we care! - don't even think of meeting him dressed like that. Appearances and first impressions make a hell lot of difference... so put on that nice sober smart shirt you got for Diwali and clean pants and check him check you out!

Tone down the man to man: It's easy to assume that her dad is looking for a buddy to become a son-in-law but that's not always the case. So always remember that in the current situation, he's the man in charge, not you. Buddy-buddy is out; respect is more like what he wants.

Be protective: She's obviously daddy's girl so be careful about any reference to her, with him. He may want to catch you on the wrong foot if he doesn't take an instant liking to you, so show him that you care deeply about her and are extremely protective. That will re-assure him.

Advice, advice: Looking up to the man is what will please him. Feel free to ask him for his comments / views on topics close to his heart and ask for his advice. Fathers-in-law love to indulge in know-all talk - even if they don't know all!

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February 21, 2008 in In Focus | Permalink

Jewellery trends for the ubersexual male

Jewellery trends for the ubersexual male India's first branded line for men's jewellery and accessories.

Today, men seem to be playing the role of caring husband, loving father, smooth, and sometimes, ruthless businessman, loving son and God knows how many more roles! In the last five years India has seen a tremendous metamorphosis in the way men conduct themselves in society. From the traditional Indian male to the metrosexual to the latest term - the ubersexual, the evolution has been amazing.

Interestingly, the last few years have seen men enter and command, if I might add, a fairly high presence in fields that have always been considered woman's territory. Think about it, a few years back, a trip to the salon would have meant a haircut and a shave, today it's may include highlights, facials, manicures and maybe an aromatherapy massage!

Amazingly, if we were to delve deep into history, this should come as no surprise to us. The Mughals and other royalty were famous for their grooming, their clothes and their jewellery. Interestingly, this season has seen the launch and showcase of many lines of men's jewellery and India's first branded line for men's jewellery and accessories.

Adora diamond jewellery has launched 'MAN'S EGO' or 'ME ' - India's first brand exclusively for men's jewellery and accessory needs. Prabir Chatterjee, MD, Adora, the man behind the line agrees, "Men's jewellery is nothing new. If you remember our kings, ministers or zamindaars, they all wore jewellery, gold and diamonds, stones as well, which befitted their status. It could be a crown, a sword that was bejewelled, turban pins or even robes that were dressed up. We have simply brought it back as a reminder to the men that they too need to wear jewellery to enhance their personality."

That's true - our traditional dresses do see a lot of jewelled ornamentation, such as kurta buttons or sherwani buttons, but these are usually a one-off. This is the kind of jewellery that a man should wear every day, any time, any attire, any mood. There is something for everyone. For starters, let's look at the mind boggling variety on display - rings, pendants, bracelets, cuff rings, tie-pins, suit pins, button caps, tie tags, money clips, belt buckles, thumb rings, ear studs… the list is simply exhaustive. What is clear is men's jewellery is definitely moving away from the conventional to the innovative, trendy, stylish fashion accessory - as much a part of lifestyle today as the Mont Blanc pen or the Tag Heur watch. The best part is these don't come at so steep a price - with a starting price of Rs.2,500; this is something every man can flaunt!

Another brand, Carbon, has a man's collection that likes to work with unconventional materials. Utsav Malhotra, brand head, Carbon, says "We have tried to stick to our expertise at design, consumer understanding and understanding and usage of unconventional materials. The latest offering for men in a fully blown line of men's accessories launched by Carbon at the Lakme Fashion week was titled "Insignia", a tribute to the man who prefers to leave his mark! Crafted out of sapphire crystal and vapourised gold, the range consists of a wide range of men's accessories."
Stylish and fashionable seem to be the key here! The man today is well travelled, well - read and knows what he wants. Internationally, Kenneth Cole offers men's only retail world. One thing is clear, men are saying, "It is high time someone sat up and took notice of our needs."

Prabir on being asked about the interesting title, MAN'S EGO, says, "It's very simple. A man's ego is a symbol of what he is who he is, what he thinks, what he has achieved what his status is. It is about success. It is about power. It's about attitude." It is a befitting statement of the men today.
An evening out at the latest restaurants or a night out at the new watering hole, will reveal men today dressing up to suit their moods and personalities. For ages it was assumed, if a woman wears red, she means passion, if she wears black, she's playing the sophisticate, polka dots indicate retro, colourful refers to a free spirit, etc

Prabir Chatterjee Today it is the turn of men to play. Prabir concurs "MAN'S EGO has two looks. One - male glam for the suave, sophisticated, focussed corporate man; a professional and another look for the metro sexual - the social animal, young, trendy, loud and funky. What you wear reveals your personality."

The designs available for men's jewellery are a mix of classic, classic with a twist, contemporary, minimalist or the rap stars favoured ice look. The colours, textures, finishes and packaging are all designed to appeal to the M (read male) quotient. Internationally, Brad Pitt and Damiani made headlines when they designed men's jewellery together. Male jewellery is everywhere.
Utsav says, "Men today are also, slowly but surely, waking up to the need of dressing up, emergence of categories, and terms such as "metro sexual", "neo-age", "urban male" etc are clear index of the Indian male expressing his desires to look adorned ! And we are looking at catering to this latent need."

It is no secret that jewellery is the best accessory to dress up - a great style statement, a great mood elevator, a reflection of your personality and absolutely great style enhancement. Nothing dresses up a suit like a pair of cuff links or tie pins. Nothing dresses up a great pair of denims like a funky pendant. Nothing dresses you up for a night of partying like a diamond stud or a cool bracelet. If you wanna make a statement, you wanna stand out, you wanna look good, you wanna look cool, and you wanna look with it; sport some baubles!

For inspiration, we just need to turn to the tinsel world. George Clooney has it, Shahrukh Khan has it, and Aby's Baby has it, 50 Cent has it, Bono has it, and Jon Bon Jovi has it!

To the men of today who have arrived and know it - its time for enhancement!

Himja Parekh

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The Bride's Gift - The Right Choice For The Wedding Night

The Bride's Gift - The Right Choice For The Wedding Night Gift ideas for your wedding night.

Gift ideas for your wedding night.

With all the wedding expenses happening you may have thought that you were finally done coughing up the dough, but tradition dictates that you buy your blushing bride one last gift - the wedding night gift. It's not absolutely required, but well... you're going to be the beneficiary of a whole lot of gratitude.

Of course, how grateful she is will depend entirely on how much thought you put into the gift. Get the wrong one and you might just find yourself on your ownsome lonesome. Here are some gift ideas that will ensure a great start to your marriage.

JEWELLERY

Go classic. When Monroe said, "Diamonds are a girl's best friend," she knew what she was talking about. Big or small, solitaire or a cluster, earrings, pendant or a ring - you can't go wrong with diamonds. Depending on your budget you can pick earrings or a ring or even a tiny pendant. A bracelet is a great option too but slightly more expensive. If you can afford a necklace with matching earrings - you're all set for the big night!
Get it engraved. Women love personalized gifts. It shows them you care enough to make an effort. A ring, I.D. bracelet, or locket can easily be engraved. Make sure the message is cryptic enough so that it's something only the two of you share.
Charm her silly with a charm bracelet stocked with handpicked charms. Start with your first date: If you went on a picnic, get a golden picnic basket; if you met in Goa, find a little gold palm tree. Another option is an oval-link gold charm bracelet: Over time, you can add a charm for each trip, birthday, holiday, or other milestone you share.
Stuff a locket with a photo of you at age three, a photo of the two of you together, a lock of your hair, or a love note. She'll love this.

If you have not already presented her with a mangalsutra, now is a great time to do so. It will show her that you value the commitment you have made and strengthen the bond between the two of you.
If there's an heirloom piece in your family (i.e., your grandmother's gold kadas), now's the time to give it to her!

THE ART OF LOVE

If she's coveted a certain oil painting, photograph, or other art piece for a long time, it's charmingly symbolic of you to buy it for her.

You could get a portrait of the two of you done. If she likes things simple, try a pencil sketch. For something more flamboyant you could go for an oil painting. Make sure you choose a good photo to copy.
You needn't spend a bundle on her gift: A book of poems with a sincere love note written on the title page can be a more meaningful gift than any expensive trinket. You could also go for a book of Shayari by Ghalib - the original love poet!

MORE LOVE STUFF

A watch would be fantastic. An expensive, classy designer watch will set the right time.
Lingerie is perfect for the sensuous mood you want to create but remember that it's not something she can keep forever as a memoir.

Whatever you choose to buy give it to her in private, she may want to cherish the moment or if you're lucky... thank you for it!

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February 21, 2008 in Celebration | Permalink

Laws Concerning Indian Marriage

Laws Concerning Indian Marriage Every marriage must be solemnized keeping laws and other formalities in mind.

Siddhartha Shah
A practicing advocate of Mumbai High Court. He specialises in Civil, Criminal, International and Matrimonial Laws. He opines on Indian Laws and the Legal System.
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Matrimonial Forum

Gazal asks,
Is there any way that I can delay the divorce proceedings? Actually my husband is forcing me for divorce. My husband is a USA citizen and I am an Indian citizen (conditional permanent resident). I got married in India and now residing in California.
Dear Gazal,
As regards to your query and as per the facts narrated by you: Firstly your husband ought to have a valid reason and strong ground to initiate legal process for divorce. You can definitely defend or refuse to submit to the contentions as alleged by your husband and even initiate process for restitution of your conjugal rights by disagreeing to the allegations as spelt out before the "Honourable Court". You can definitely defend your case and can put across your stand before the appropriate Matrimonial Forum by taking out necessary applications negating the allegations as made by your husband. Hope this should suffice your query in brief. You must consult an expert divorce lawyer for appropriate further clarifications and systematic legal compliances.

Hope this should suffice your query in brief.

Special / Hindu Marriage Act

BG asks,
What is the difference between Special Marriage Act and Hindu Marriage Act from the view point of a boy and girl who are above 25, self earners, citizens of India, Hindu but do not belonging to same caste?
Dear BG,
The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 applies only to persons professing Hindu religion whereas the Special Marriage Act applies to persons belonging to two different castes and / or religions.

Hope this should suffice your query in brief.

My Wife Doubts My Character

Sanjeev Gautam asks,
I am married since 5 years. My wife is 12th failed. I am self-employed and a computer teacher by profession. My problem is that my wife doesn’t believe me. She complains that I don’t love her and doubts my character. She interferes in my business matters too. Her family is not that educated to understand my problems nor do they intend to help me to overcome this problem and make their daughter understand. Please help me and legally advise me to get rid of this dilemma.
Dear Sanjeev Gautam,
This is with regards to your query: Firstly, you need to take your wife to a marriage counsellor wherein you could sort out your personal issues and get moving with your married life or else you have an option of initiating legal process for sorting out things legally by filing petition for obtaining judicial separation or else divorce from your wife. You need to consult an expert family / divorce lawyer for further compliances.

Hope this should suffice your query in brief.

Property Dispute

Nilesh asks,
I had got divorced (on the bases of mutual consent) 6 month back. I own a house and I am the first owner of the property. My ex-wife has second name on the property. Now my ex-wife's father wants to claim money for that, and I refuse to pay for the same. Can my ex-wife's father claim for the same?
Dear Nilesh,
As regards to your query your ex-wife's father shall have no right on your property and he cannot claim for the same.

Hope this suffices your query in brief.

Marriage Under Special Marriage Act

Mukesh asks,
I am working in US and my girlfriend is working in UK. Is there anyway we can get married in accordance with the Special Marriage Act in UK or US? Please let me know.
Dear Mukesh,
As per the limited facts narrated by you, you have not mentioned about you and your girlfriend's status and present nationality. Presumably if you both are Indian then you shall be governed under the Indian Legislation and Matrimonial Laws of India. For which you can definitely get married under the Foreign Marriage Act, before the Indian consulate at the UK or US.

Hope this suffices your query in brief.

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