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September 19, 2008
Neena Gupta's Wedding Bash
Neena Gupta tied the knot on July 15 in the US with Vivek Mehra. View pics.
This banno rani may have become sayani a bit late in life, but one has to admire her courage. Neena Gupta tied the knot on July 15 in the US with Vivek Mehra. Vivek is a partner at PricewaterhouseCoopers.
Recently, the couple hosted an impromptu post-wedding bash for all their close family and friends in Mumbai at the Sahara Star. The bash was well attended by many film and TV celebrities who came in to wish the couple well.
Of course, Neena's close friends Soni Razdan, Kalpana Lajmi and Ila Arun were very much present to celebrate their friend's new love and life. Ila Arun sang to everyone's delight as Soni and Kalpana danced in gay abandon as only true friends can.
Neena was heard saying, ''I know the mehendi and sangeet ceremonies happen before the wedding. I also know I'm past the age of such frolic and fun. But what to do? All my friends are young at heart, and so am I. They all wanted to be part of my marriage even if it was belatedly.''
The actress regrets the fact that her loved ones couldn't attend her 'shaadi' in the US.
'My friends felt so left out. I feel bad about that. That's why I'm happy I went through the sangeet and mehendi ceremonies like in a proper wedding. Never mind if it happened in the reverse order. The important thing is to enjoy what you do in life. And my friends had a ball on Saturday,' Neena said.
Added Kalpana, "Neena is courageous to have grabbed the chance to find domestic bliss at this age. That evening we all celebrated the vibrancy of love and marriage in our middle age. But then shared joy like this cuts across all barriers."
Neena's daughter Masaba looked ravishing like her mother. Since Neena and Vivek refused to pose for the cameras it was left to Masaba to pacify the shutterbugs and pose away she did!
View pics of Neena Gupta's wedding bash.
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Reality Check: The DINK Way
Is a couple jeopardizing their future happiness in lieu of present opulence?
Is having a child always the next step in a marriage?
A decade ago in India, marriage, children and family were inextricably linked. Many women married since then may recollect being nudged and winked at, during their marriage, about the intimacy they were about to indulge in. Not-so-subtle hints about the bundle of joy that would come their way before long (read 'a year hence') were also not far behind!
But times have changed, and perhaps one of the most salient aspects of this change is the emergence of couples going the DINK way across major metros.
DINK - what's that?
DINK, an acronym for Double Income No Kids, first appeared in Pat Buchanan's best-selling book The Death of the West. Now interestingly, the subtitle of this book, How Dying Populations and Immigrant Invasions Imperil Our Country and Civilization, and his chastising DINK couples as persons who shirk a social responsibility (having children) in favour of a shallow self-cantered lifestyle suggest that Buchanan's message was strongly nationalistic in intent.
We'll give the latter part of that argument a miss, in favour of asking a more pertinent question - do a husband and wife constitute a family or only a couple? In other words, are children essential to complete a family?
Why choose to be a DINK couple?
A step further, by choosing a DINK lifestyle, is a couple jeopardizing their future happiness in lieu of present opulence?
Let's get this straight - the reasons for couples choosing a DINK lifestyle are pretty much the same in India as in the West. The freedom to do as they please, when they please, live a footloose and fancy free life, party hard and sleep in, chase careers and indulge in branded luxury goods, and so on - attracts couples not to have children.
Of course, there are also women who fear being pregnant or the process of childbirth, or couples who genuinely dislike children or feel the country is over-populated as it is! What emanates is that unlike childless couples who desire children but can't have them, DINK couples opt to be childfree.
Exercise your freedom to choose wisely
Although the reasons are many, and sure, every couple has the freedom to choose whether and when they want children, the right reason will ensure a couple does not repent too late in the day.
It is essential for a couple to define what constitutes family to them. If a man and woman marry and feel content with themselves, or like Rohit and Smita with the orphaned children they work with every weekend at a local NGO, they're unlikely to ever experience a sense of being incomplete even if they don't have kids. Among celebrities, consider that talk show queen Oprah Winfrey doesn't have children of her own but devotes her time and financial resources to help build schools for underprivileged girls in Africa. She neither misses nor is likely to miss having children.
However, if like Somesh and Meena, a couple has chosen to remain childfree because they feel having children would not allow them to 'enjoy' their life, they may well find themselves hankering for 'fulfilment' two decades down the line.
DINK couples = selfish couples?
In March 2008, the results of an ASSOCHAM survey of around 1500 couples revealed that 75 percent DINK couples spend rupees 20,000 per month on entertainment, fitness, eating out and shopping for branded wear.
Although most of those surveyed boasted of an income of rupees 6 to 8 lakhs per annum, they led tough schedules as a result of holding demanding jobs in MNCs, IT / ITES firms or in sales and marketing departments. As a result, these couples cribbed of the lack of time to enjoy a holiday. Further, 65 percent of these couples agreed that the absence of kids in their lives gave them room to splurge. Evidently then, they would not have the time (not the inclination) to bring up a child!
Take a reality check
And more importantly, they would not have the time to ask themselves a few pertinent questions - What is your perception of the purpose life? What is your goal in life? If earning money plays a huge part in your life, what do you propose to spend the money on?
These are questions you should ask yourself. It's not as though all DINK couples are selfish - some have devoted themselves to noble causes. Once in a while, you should just review and revisit the foundation you have based your 'DINK' decision on.
Essentially - don't allow your chase for comforts today push you out of your comfort zone later on in life. Don't compromise on not having a family. It can emotionally hit and hurt you badly, and cost you far more, in the years to come.
Charu Bahri
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September 19, 2008 in In Focus | Permalink
Pramanik: Elegant Trousseau & Bridal Wear
Shop for your dream wedding dress at Pramanik.
Her wedding is possibly the most special moment in a woman's life and it is no wonder then that every bride wants to look her absolute best on this day. Brides pay utmost attention to the bridal makeup and getup.
Make your marriage moments memorable with exclusive bridal dresses and wedding sari at Pramanik.
Choosing Wonderful Wedding Dresses
Women's wedding outfits in India vary with different occasions. The outfits also differ with respect to the embroidery work, designs, patterns and regions. Indian brides have a wide range of choices for their wedding outfits. They can go for traditional wedding sari or they may choose embroidered wedding lehenga cholis. Salwar kameezes look very stylish and can be worn on wedding receptions or as a bridesmaid dress.
When choosing your sari consider factors like fabric, contemporary or traditional look, type of work, season, type (South Indian), color and price. On the basis of fabric you can go for materials like silk, crape, georgette, satin, net, cotton and many more. In case of silk saris you can further choose from Mysore silk, Kanjivaram, Banarasi silk and Pure silk.
Embroidered bridal saris and lehenga cholis are heavily embellished with embroidery like zari work, cut work, mirror work, organza, sequins, zardosi, pearls, kasab, tikli, butti, phulkari, chikankari, resham, beads, stones and kundan.
Traditional Bridal Wear
Indian bridal dresses vary with different wedding traditions in different regions or states in India.
- The Garchola is a traditional Hindu and Jain wedding sari.
- Gujarati brides wear a white sari with red border or red and white lehenga choli called a Panetar sari or a Panetar lehenga choli.
- Christian and Parsi brides choose white or cream or off-white shaded sari as their bridal attire. Parsi wedding sari have beautiful embroidery work called as Gara work.
- Malayalam and other South Indian brides go for Mysore silk, Kanjivaram or Banarasi silk saris as their wedding saris.
- Maharashtrian Paithani shalu with peacock embroidery work on pallu is very famous bridal attire in Maharashtra.
Lovely Lehenga Cholis
Most Indian brides choose latest designer fashion wear lehenga cholis as their bridal dress. Lehenga cholis are now available in latest fashions, patterns, designs, fabrics, prints, embroidery work with heavy embroidered designer cholis and matching dupatta. Fishkali or fishtail lehenga cholis with heavily embroidered lehenga and latest fashion designer cholis are very popular among Indian and NRI brides for wedding reception parties, celebrity parties, or as a beautiful bridesmaid dress.
Beautiful Bridesmaid Dresses
A stylish salwar kameez could be a great option for bridesmaid dresses. Awesome Anarkali style salwar kameez with latest designer pattern, heavy embroidered yoke and churidaar adds style and glam to your personality. So Anarkali dresses are mostly preferred by Indian and NRI women who are conscious about their style.
Latest Fashion: Designer Bridal Dresses
Now days, traditional bridal dresses have also been glammed up. Latest styles include designer bridal sari with heavy embroidery work and stylish blouses for weddings. Pretty party wear fancy sari, designer lehenga cholis and salwar kameezes of latest fashions are also a great but.
Pramanik is a one-stop solution for all your wedding dream-dresses shopping! Beautiful and trendy traditional wedding dresses as embroidered wedding sari, embroidered bridal lehenga cholis, banarasi, bandhej, silk, printed sari, gorgeous ghagra cholis, charming chaniya cholis at Pramanik are perfect traditional bridal wear attire.
Nowadays latest designer sari with embroidered blouses and lehenga cholis with stylish designer cholis at Pramanik have become a craze among Indian and NRI women. Stylish Anarkali and patiyala salwar kameez with latest designs and mind-blowing colors at Pramanik are a great choice as bridesmaid dresses or party wear dresses. Stunning fancy sari, celebrity wear dresses, party wear salwar suits, elegant embroidered sari and traditional lehenga cholis for any occasion, festival, function and season are also available at Pramanik.
Online Shopping
Save your precious time and energy to be indulged in other important wedding planning errands and shop for your dream wedding dress online. You will get a variety of various colors, style and fashion at the Pramanik online sari shop. (http://www.pramanik.in).
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9, Palai Plaza, Opp. Pritam Hotel,
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Tel : +91 22 24155588/99
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September 19, 2008 in Fashion | Permalink
Anang Desai At Home
View pictures of Anang Desai's home interiors.
Most popularly recognized as the lovable grandfather - Babuji - in Khichdi and Instant Khichdi, Anang Desai is a master of his craft. Just as his onscreen presence is very neighbour-next-door and comforting, so is his home.
The beautiful ensemble of antique woodwork at Anang's house has given the whole house a very elegant and royal touch. The couch, side tables, centre table, settee and wall décor in wooden frame complete the look and complement each other.
Whatever style one decides comfort should always be kept in mind - and that's exactly what Desai has done. The sofa and couches at Anang's house though stylish are yet very comfortable. When shopping for furniture the challenge is to keep the area harmonious and tied together by picking shapes and textiles that compliment each other. This is evident from the different furniture that Anang has picked for his house.
The functional bookcase in Anang's house also serves as a decorative display area - which is perfect for smaller homes in large cities. It is used to display small works of art. It is a sure-fire way of adding warmth to the room.
If one is looking for a cottage like feel, then light coloured wood is the right choice. Dark coloured furniture is for more traditional look.
View pictures of Anang Desai's Home
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Thyroid Can Cause Hair Fall
Illness's can lead towards hair fall and grey hair...
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Hair Loss
Sridhar asks,
I am 27 years old male. Since the past 5 years my hair is thinning. Small patches have formed. I don't have any hereditary problem. I feel stressed and that might be the reason for my hair loss. So, I would like to know from you whether I can get back my hair or not?
Dear Sridhar,
Apparently as per your history you seem to have a Male Pattern Thinning which is always progressive. Treatment can slow down further thinning drastically but can seldom re-grow hair.
Hair Care
Himali asks,
I face the problem of falling hair every month. I had very thin hair till I was about 10 years old and after that my hair suddenly grew very thick and about four years later it started falling drastically. Although I controlled my hair loss by applying a hair tonic from Pantene - my hair never grew back to what I had earlier and still every month I face the problem of severe hair loss. I got hormonal check and sonography done but even those were normal. Where do you think the problem lies?
Dear Himali,
You need to be seen thoroughly and analyzed by trichologist before arriving at any conclusion. In the meantime you should have proper intake of diet with good intake of water.
Nutritional Deficiency
Kiran asks,
I have a heavy hair fall everyday, in the shower and while brushing my hair. I have thick, black wavy type hair. I do apply oil once in a week, sometime once in a fortnight. I am not suffering from any disease.
Dear Kiran,
A fall of around 50-60 hair strands per day is normal and yet if you feel there is tremendous hair fall than it can be due nutritional deficiency and hormonal problem. Please get that checked.
Grey Hair Dilemma
Sonia Pherwani asks,
I have grey hair in the front and I have been using henna since many years but the problem is that it doesn't last and after four days I can see the grey hair again. I don't want to use hair dyes as it causes headaches. Please suggest the best natural way?
Dear Sonia Pherwani,
To mask the grey hair the best natural way is to use henna and to oil your hair regularly.
Thyroid Problem
Nita asks,
I am 50 years old woman having thyroid for last 5 years. In the last one year there has been excessive hair fall. Please help me. My doctor said hair fall is due to thyroid problem. Is there any remedy?
Dear Nita,
Thyroid fluctuations can lead to hair fall so it is mandatory to have the thyroid hormones normalized by taking appropriate medicines.
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September 11, 2008
Sanjay Kapoor Produces "Its My Life"
Shaaditimes gets a glimpse of one and only, amiable, intelligent - Sanjay Kapoor.
Shaaditimes gets a glimpse of his life, his wife and his work.
He says the most interesting person he's ever met is Shah Rukh Khan. So it's logical to learn that Shah Rukh and he are close buddies. He was once linked with Bollywood glam gals Tabu and Sushmita Sen.
''I think when you're young you need to be in a relationship. And mostly when you're young you don't think about marriage. I think you marry when everything falls into place,'' he laughs. His favourite destination after travelling India is London. He is the one and only, amiable, intelligent and with a subtle humour - Sanjay Kapoor.
His claim to fame is many, but the films that have lingered in our minds are Prem (with Bollywood hearthrob Tabu) and the super hit Raja which catapulted him to stardom (with superstar Madhuri Dixit).
Currently enjoying his new avatar as a producer, the movie, ''Its My Life'' (directed by Anees Bazmee) has taken over Sanjay's life and is under production. ''The story is about a father and son relationship,'' says Sanjay. ''I found the script to be honest. Something not just larger than life. It depicts a real life situation between an over-possessive father and son. Their conflict and their ability to give in.''
The film is based on a Tamil and Telegu film ''Bommarillu'' where a son wants to achieve his life's goals but is always dissuaded by his father. Sanjay shrugs off any suggestion of similarity in real life. So there is no ''reel'' life drama spilling off the screen. Sanjay has a wonderful relationship with his family especially his oldest brother whom he looks to for guidance and with respect.
The youngest of three brothers, Sanjay is not new to the glaring and sometimes critical spotlight of Bollywood. His eldest brother Boney is a successful Producer married to 80's superstar Sridevi and his older brother Anil Kapoor one of the infamous nineties hunks along with Jackie Shroff, Ajay Devgan and Sanjay Dutt.
Is it difficult to create your own persona as the youngest of three brothers?
"Yes and no. On one side it's difficult when people compare you to someone or expect you to have the same type of talent. In contrast, I consider myself fortunate to be Sanjay Kapoor. I am proud of my achievements both as an actor and now as a producer. I have received much critical claim for many of my films, and was considered a successful star following the release of Raja for sometime." He was distinguished for his performance as a villain to Esha Deol in Koi Mere Dil Se Poochhe and playing a terrorist in the film Qayamat: City Under Threat.
Married to Australian import Jewellery Designer and one time model Maheep Sandhu they are proud parents of two young children. He met Maheep in Delhi and as he tells us it was love at first sight. "I was floored by her beauty, her carriage and her confidence at first. Later and till now I love her for her kindness and for being a wonderful mother to our children Shania and Jahann," he says.
Are Indian girls from abroad more Indian?
"Well, I cannot speak for all Indians, but I must say Maheep is traditional by nature. Just before meeting her I had spent a great deal of time in Vancouver during the shooting of Mohabbat. There were many songs and just as many extras on the set. There was a nice camaraderie, and I found Indians abroad to be sentimental about their memories of our culture and country," he reminisces.
His career path has been non-linear and there have been patches of disillusionment he admits. "I try not to remember the slow days. I think all actors go through this at some point in their careers. There are highs and lows," he believes.
What keeps him going?
"I think your belief in yourself, your work, and also family and friends. Both Maheep and I are lucky to have a large circle of friends." According to Sanjay, when he's not on the film set or heading the production of his film, both he and Maheep enjoy spending time with friends. Their endless list includes Bollywood Royalty Shah Rukh Khan and his wife Gauri and Producer Karan Johar.
How does he rate his success?
"That's an interesting question because there are one billion people in this country and many of them would love to be in my shoes. And if you look at that then I feel successful," he jokes. And then more seriously, "I believe it starts by selecting good movies, then getting a good team of collective individuals. The rest is luck and the acceptance of your audience because ultimately they decide if you're a star or not."
We can look forward to seeing Sanjay in Zoya Akhtar's "Luck by Chance" with Farhan Akthar. Sanjay will also be seen in post-production movies Beach, Kab Takk, Tumhare Liye, Hera Pheri 4 and Kayanaat.
Rohini Bhatia-Singh
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First Impressions & In-Laws
Don't let the in-laws outlaw you. Tips on creating a good first impression!
How to make a good impression when meeting your future in-laws for the very first time.
Studies have shown that most people make their first impression within five minutes of meeting another person. And if first impressions are really last impressions, you must make sure all goes smooth in the first rendezvous with the prospective in-laws. Here are a few tips to help all you to-be brides and grooms.
- Be yourself: When meeting any new person, the only way to let the awkwardness pass is by being you. This stands true for your partner's parents too. Trying to portray a completely different personality will make you uncomfortable and will eventually be noticed by everyone. Now we are not advising you to act boisterously like you might with your buddies on a night out. But forget the overly-demure bride or affectionate son-in-law routine too. Instead, behave like you do with any respectable adult.
- Learn about them: Ask your partner to brief you a little on their interests, their jobs and especially the taboo topics in the family. If they are from a different culture, they will appreciate you knowing about their traditions. While a complete course of ''Mom and Dad 101'' may not be available in case of an arranged marriage; learn all the details you possibly can.
- Dress for success: Make sure you are dressed neatly; clothes should be well ironed and appropriate to the location you are meeting at. A casual look is fine for a coffee shop but a restaurant demands more formal attire. If you have been invited to their place, a semi formal look is your safest bet. Men, this is not a day to sport the rugged look - shave please. Women, they want to see your real face, keep the makeup subtle and classy. And no cleavage please!
- Mind your posture: This one is not as lame as it sounds. Maintaining a good posture reflects confidence and poise. Slouching will project you as a nonchalant person who thinks this meeting is of lesser importance. Try to maintain eye contact while talking and don't tap your foot or look at your watch.
- Address them correctly: Ask your fiancé / partner in advance how your future in-laws would like to be addressed and greeted. Different cultures have different ways of showing respect. If you are unsure, stick to what your own parents have taught you when being introduced to their own friends for the first time.
- Mind your manners: In addition to please and thank-you, stand up when being introduced to anyone. Touch their feet for their blessings, if that's the culture. Wait till they are seated before you sit. Be polite but not fake. Sugar coating every compliment will come across as not saying it from the heart. Mind your table manners and help to clear the table if at home. Thoughtful gestures, even as small as passing the appetizers around will make a good impression.
- Involve the entire family: Striking up a conversation with your partner's / fiancé's siblings and grandparents will certainly help you to score added brownie points. Your interest in their entire family will give your future in-laws a glimpse of how you interact with others.
- Stick to safe conversations: Try not to discuss religion or politics, both of which have highly differentiated opinions. Let them start most conversations. Safe topics for you to start on include complimenting their home or a painting there, the weather, a little about your family or a common hobby that you might share with one of them. If they start on a controversial topic that you are unsure of answering, try to change the topic. Parents love to talk about their own children. So ask questions about your partner's / fiancé's childhood. Absolutely avoid saying anything critical about your partner, even as a joke. You can get into a sticky situation if they do not find it funny.
- Remember: They have raised the person you want to marry. Respect them for that and remember your partner is the person he / she is, because of your future in-laws. They only want what's best for their child and that's true of any parents, including your own. They want to make sure their child is marrying a considerate, stable and nice human being. This thought will help you keep an open mind and shake the nervousness off.
Aarti Thadani
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Neha Dhupia Launches Secret Curves
Primarily young, energetic and extremely wearable lingerie.
It was a hot, hot evening at The Taj Lands End, Mumbai in more ways than one. Bollywood actress and former Miss India Neha Dhupia launched New York based lingerie house Secret Curves in India. Also present at the event were model Marc Robinson, and designer Neeta Lulla and Narendra Kumar.
Dhupia came to the event looking sizzling hot herself in a white fitted dress with a soft boat neck and ruched waist. Dhupia was flaunting more curves than all the lingerie models put together. We especially love the clutch she carried to the event.
The Secret Curves collection was primarily young, energetic and extremely wearable. Some pieces were teasingly sexy and very appropriate for a shy, new bride.
Our favourite picks:
- We especially loved the racy green and black lace confection. Magolicious and perfect for the honeymoon!
- The white lace set is also innocently sexy and just right for the first night. We love the added ribbon detail on it.
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Top 15 Ideas To Woo Your Wife
We're bringing to you great tips on how to woo your sweetheart.
Check out how the Big B wooed Jaya!
Guys, guys, guys! Burping at the dining table is not regarded as a compliment to the cook in wife-speak; we prefer something more along the lines of 'Bodelicous, Babes!' and sometimes even a simple, 'You make that sari look gorgeous' will do just as well.
But beer-guzzling with pals and offering us a half-pint half-heartedly? Or fitting us in between commercial breaks during a 20-20 match so you can pretend you actually listen to us!?! Oh, come on now!
Married men (age, shape, dating I.Q. no bar), listen up! This is one of those definitive moments for you to decide whether you want to be thought of as a romantic lover or not. This is your chance to rekindle the flame and perhaps even light a fire (if you're lucky, it'll be in the bedroom!).
We're bringing to you great tips on how to woo your sweetheart. And even real life incidences on how celebs like the Big B made it work for them!
Deepanjolie Sonya Figg
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Can Azoospermia Be Root Cause For Infertility?
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Masturbation
Swamy asks,
Will regular masturbation before marriage cause low sperm count?
Dear Swamy,
No. Masturbation is a normal and healthy habit, which does not affect sperm counts. Your body produces sperm all the time and you cannot ''run out of sperm'', so please do not worry!
Delayed Periods
Pasha asks,
I got married 6 months back. Since then we are trying for a child. But my wife has not yet conceived. I am looking into some changes in her body. Like she has headaches and backaches often and mood swings also. But her period has not stopped and she bleeds only for 2 days. Her lower abdomen has also increased in its size. Is my wife pregnant? Is it possible that a woman gets her period even after conceiving?
Dear Pasha,
No, this is very unlikely. You need to be patient - Nature takes time to make a baby! If your wife is not pregnant in another 9 months, then do a complete workup before starting treatment haphazardly.
Do the following simple medical tests:
- Your semen analysis, to check the sperm count and motility.
- Blood tests for the following reproductive hormones - FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone), LH (luteinising hormone), PRL (prolactin) and TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone) on Day 3 of her cycle, (to check the quality of her eggs). Do this only from a reliable lab such as Specialty Ranbaxy.
- A HSG (hysterosalpingogram, X-ray of her uterus and tubes) on Day 8 of her cycle (to confirm if her fallopian tubes are open).
With these test results, we can determine if there is any medical problem causing infertility. If there is a problem, then we can treat it! The chances of conceiving with the right treatment are excellent!
Ectopic Pregnancy
Sherika asks,
I am 33 years old and trying for my second baby. But I had an ectopic pregnancy where they removed one fallopian tube. Is it still possible to get pregnant again?
Dear Sherika,
Yes, but only if your other fallopian tube is normal. You can check this by doing a HSG or a laparoscopy. However, you do have a risk of having another ectopic pregnancy again and you must ask your doctor to confirm that your pregnancy is intrauterine the next time you get pregnant.
Azoospermia
Sarah asks,
I want to ask that if the man has zero sperm count what are the treatments for that? We (my hubby and I ) have been to many doctors but with no result.
Dear Sarah,
It appears you have a zero sperm count. This is called Azoospermia. Can you send me the detailed semen analysis report? Volume? Fructose? PH?
Please repeat it again. Do 2 samples, after an interval of 1 hour (sequential ejaculate), and ask them to centrifuge the sample and check the pellet for sperm precursors. Send me this report once you get it. If it's still zero, then we need to find out the reason behind your Azoospermia. There are 2 possibilities - obstructive Azoospermia; or non-obstructive Azoospermia. You need a testis biopsy to determine if sperm are being produced in the testes or not. A good urologist will do this for you. Ask him to do multiple microbiopsies and send them to the pathology laboratory in Bouin's fluid. Let me know what the report is once you get this.
Intake Of Other Tablets
Keerthi asks,
I by mistake took my hubby's tablet i.e. Oligocare instead of having Ovacare. It's on my fifth day of the cycle. Can you please tell me if it affects me in any way as we are planning to have a baby? And also I may go for IUI in this cycle? Is this tablet harmful for the follicles?
Dear Keerthi,
I am not sure what this tablet contains, so I cannot comment, sorry.
Dr. Aniruddha Malpani will answer your queries. Ask now!
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