Is Marriage Mandatory In Life?

Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success in life.

Divya Chugh A renowned tarot expert specializing in relationship issues. She excels in ''Compatibility Counseling''. She has immense experience relating with the problems of professionals, youth, students and families. She gives guidance to all kind of working professionals.  Have a question? Click here...

Stress And Depression

Komal asks,
My birth date is 30/07/1962 at 05.45am. I am still single. My life is very much a struggle. Now I am fed up of this life. Always unsuccessful in love!
Dear Komal,
Marriage delays in our Indian culture bring lots of depression with a state of mind where a person feels deprived, helpless and insecure. It results in depression means either getting what one does not want, or not getting what one wants. But if feeling dejected and depressed is one part of the reality, the presence of strength and resilience in facing life is the other side.

There are numerous instances, recorded or unrecorded, in the lives of a person, which point to this uncommon degree of courage, calmness and enthusiasm even in the face of most trying conditions. We often wonder at these strength and ask: Is it possible? For us? The difficulty comes when we refuse to learn and instead cling to pain. That is how so many people go on privately fondling their painful memories, nurturing resentments, and planning to set 'others' right, not realizing that what must be set right is within and not without.

Please don't let your self down by negative thinking. Being a strong 'Leo / magician soul' you should use your "charm," persuasion, and whatever resource is available, and then let the Cosmic Forces direct your course or reveal what is hidden. In time, you will see that your prayers have been answered.

Advice: Pain plays the role of a teacher, educating and guiding us towards higher states of being. Wear 2 mukhi and 6 mukhi Rudraksh together.

Handling Difficult Relationships

Himani Mehta asks,
My name is Himani Mehta, 02/11/69 at 04.14 am, Mumbai and my fiancée's name is Chitrang Mehta, 06/11/73 at 11.15 pm, Mumbai.
We have been engaged since 19/08/2007 and have been looking at tying the knot soon, but unfortunately, we had to deal with either financial or family problems most of the time. This has been keeping the wedding at bay. This has unfortunately given rise to ugly fights, misunderstanding, arguments and its just leaving a bad taste in our mouth.
I would like to know, will we ever get married and if we do will it be worth it?
Dear Himani,
Your partnership is an intense one, and you are likely to become very attached or obsessed with each other. Both of you are also prone to be possessive about anyone that you give your love to. This relationship could easily lead to marriage but like most lasting, important relationships, yours will have its share of difficult times, and you both seem to thrive on passionate, tempestuous interactions. Stormy fights and sizzling reunions may typify your relationship.

You both love intensely and you hate with equal ferocity, so your relationship is likely to be either deeply satisfying or very destructive to you both; there is no middle ground for the two of you! Unfortunately present cards are not in favor of marriage and it's because of Chitrang's over expectations from life before time. Better give second thought or seriously work on improving compatibility by ignoring worries and over expectations. Take care.

Advice: Try to be more open when dealing with relationships. Don't let your worries or emotions build up so much that you tend to drop a bomb on your partner. It can really be hurtful.

Questions On Marital Issues

Kavita asks,
When will I get married? Will I get married to the person I'm in love with. I'm facing problems in handling my family. When will they be resolved? My date of birth is 14/02/1984, at 12.03 pm and his 30/09/1983, at 10.35 pm.
Dear Kavita,
Your Aquarian / high priestess love of all mankind will spark your Libran boy friend to go out there and change the world in both small and large ways. Friendly and sociable, these two common factors will bring out the best in each other. Both of you will share many other interests to make for an exciting affair and a long lasting marriage. Little patience of 8 months more will bring you all happiness. By the time all family members will be convinced for this marriage. The month of May and June 2009 is the best time for your marriage. My blessings to both of you.

Advice: Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success.

Unconditional Love

Saheer asks,
My name is Saheer. I am Muslim by religion and I was born on 05/05/1967. I am in love with my Hindu girl Anasuya who was born in December 1964. I want to marry her as soon as possible. Please say when can we do so?
Dear Saheer,
I must appreciate your 'unconditional love' for Anasuya. You are a sympathetic and kind person, generous with personal and material resources. Wisdom, and understanding are the cornerstones of your life, and these define your approach to life in general. Your extraordinary ability to understand the problems of others is forcing you to enter in this relationship. This year of 2008 is good as far as marriage is concerned. But sorry dear! I cannot see a life time commitment in your cards. You will not be fulfilled in your relationship because it is either nonproductive or dissatisfying at a very deep level. Both of you will have to work hard for marital life. My loving wises to both of you.

Advice: It's not the will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.

Life Partner

Amit asks,
I am Amit Asamwar, date of birth 16/05/1981 at 02:05 am, Ulhasnagar (Dist-Thane). My mother's name is Shobha S Asamwar. I want to know when I will get married and to whom?
Dear Amit,
A lovely question from a 'knight of coins'. You are enjoying your life but your strong determination and sense of purpose is already marked for success. You are motivated, ambitious and a strong worker. You will get married next year i.e. 2009. She will be a down-to-earth girl. She will prove to be an excellent friend or business partner too who is steadfast and loyal. She will be highly creative and attractive girl. Prefer a working and educated girl. All the best.

Advice: Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country.

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